Sydney Casual Sex

Single life can be difficult, particularly when you’re craving some action in the bedroom. Not everyone is into one night stands but a casual sex relationship can be the ideal solution.  And if you’re looking for casual sex in Sydney, there’s a few things you need to know to make sure you do it right! Sydney Casual Sex

Because, eventually, one or both people in the relationship will begin to develop feelings, take something personal, become jealous or begin to act like you’re in a full-time relationship.

A casual sex relationship can certainly be a great thing, so if this is something you and a friend (or a soon-to-be ‘friend’) want to try it’s important to have some ground rules in place before you get busy in the bedroom.

Nil Commitment
The main reason people enter into a casual sex relationship is because they’re looking for zero commitment. It’s crucial for both of you to be up-front that your bedroom hook-ups are for sex and only sex.  This of course needs to be a well-time conversation when you’re comfortable to bring it up.  If both parties are able to agree that you’re not a couple, this is a good start.

Nil Expectations
Most relationships come with certain expectations but if you want your casual sex relationship to work, you need to release most expectations so as not to take things personally. This is certainly easier said than done , particularly if one person has feelings for the other before things start to get too serious.

Let your sex partner know what you want from the casual relationship.  Because, if you want a booty call when you can’t find anyone else and they want a once a week ‘date’, your friendship and relationship is unlikely to last.

No Jealousy
You certainly can’t predict when the green-eyed monster will rear its ugly head but you can guarantee if one of you has even the slightest feelings towards the other, jealousy will likely become an issue. Even if you fun you have together or you’re quite close, you need to remember you are together for sex, which of course can be hard to do when you see your ‘friend’ flirting with someone and making plans to go home together.

No Lying
Honesty in any relationship, even a casual one, is the most important factor. Be honest at the start when you first discuss the idea of a casual sex relationship – if either of you has strong feelings for the other, it could get messy. And if one of both of you are susceptible to jealousy or hope that this casual fling will turn into full-time, this all needs to be discussed openly at some point, and the earlier, the better.

No ‘I miss you’
Any words or actions that are similar to those used by a full-time boyfriend/girlfriend relationship should be avoided.  This doesn’t mean you don’t have fun, laugh together, and enjoy yourselves, it just means don’t turn in into a lovey dovey situation where the other person could feel weird or awkward.  If the feeling is mutual, then it’s time to have ‘the chat’ about where things are headed.  But unless you get that vibe, it could be time to move on.

No PDA’s
Public displays of affection (PDA’s) are definitely a no-no when you’re out in a social situation with your sex buddy. A few too many displays and people will start to question your relationship and you could find one of you falling for the other.

No Flowers
When it comes to flowers, save them for a ‘real’ relationship. Flowers given to a women in this casual relationship context  are likely to be misinterpreted and before you know it, feelings have developed or hearts are broken.

No Clothed Spooning
As casual sex buddies, there really shouldn’t be any situations where you need to be spooning while fully clothed. If you’re doing this, you’re no longer just a casual sex buddy – you’ve entered into couple-land.

No Body Part Nicknames
Giving nicknames to various body parts might be cute when you’re in a relationship but when you’re just casual, things don’t need to get quite that familiar.

No Emoticons
Lovely-dovey emoticons can be hard enough to swallow at the best of times but when you’re trying to keep things impersonal it’s best to stick to the emoticons you would use for friends or work colleagues.  Smiley faces are always a winner.

No Baby Voices
If there was ever a sign of a full-time relationship, baby voices is it!  If one or both of you are getting all cutesy, it’s time to reassess the relationship and decide whether to become a couple or end it.

A casual sex relationship can be successful by being up-front from the beginning and knowing what to expect.  It’s possible to keep your relationship casual and your friendship intact until either of you find yourselves in a relationship.

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